Sometimes you’re just not ready for each other.
We’ve heard it said before and I can stand testament to honest feelings and bad timing making for a painful combination. Ultimately no amount of love can put two people on the same journey Reasons you should celebrate, embrace and be happy singleġ.12 self-care habits to increase your happiness.10 ways to show the person you love, that you love them.20 quotes about self love to inspire your healing.22 top tips for long-distance relationships.I am allowing my experiences to always encourage healing, growth and learning and so here are a few things I’ve learnt about love from having a broken heart. My responsibility now, and always, is myself. There’s no right and wrong in my eyes we were just on two individual journeys and we weren’t quite ready for each other.
I don’t want to be bitter or to hold bad feelings where there was love. I hold nothing against him or what happened. Though our collective ego will usually take to hate, to blaming and to pointing fingers at the end of a relationship, I’m not here for any sort of blame game. One of the hardest realities I’ve ever had to accept. We were triggering each other like crazy and we sadly had to let go of our relationship for the sake of our health and personal growth. There was an incredible amount of love between us, but things weren’t right. You guessed it! I fell in love and it didn’t work out. I’ve certainly turned around this painful experience and have found many silver linings which are shaping me into a woman I’m proud to be every day. The challenge is to listen to what it’s trying to teach you until you heal it. The challenge is to sit with it, no matter how much it hurts. When you’re faced with pain, you’re faced with a challenge. That pain will still live in your body and will inevitably show its face again be it emotionally, physically or mentally. Pushing down emotions and covering up pain doesn’t dissolve it. One thing I’ve been determined not to do this whole time is to avoid the pain I’ve faced from my broken heart. Read my 11 benefits of counselling and reasons to be proud of going here. But you can navigate them (I 100% know you can), if not by yourself then with the help and support of family, friends and professionals. When you’re in the depths of grief, loss and heartbreak, emotions can feel incredibly overwhelming and they aren’t always the easiest to navigate. So if you’re reading this and currently experiencing a broken heart, loss, grief or similar, I hope that this blog post and my thoughts can shed even a little light for you. What I’ve been feeling has been one of the hardest emotional experiences and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Grief is relative and every experience of it is so valid. Part of me feels like my loss was small in the grand scheme of things, but a loss is a loss. I’m 26, we’re in the middle of a global pandemic, and I would say I’ve just experienced, not only my first broken heart but also my first real experience of loss. I thought I’d had my heart broken before but, I clearly hadn’t.
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